What do you think is one of the biggest threats to your relationships?
I would say the one thing that has gotten me in more hot water in my relationships is when I assume someone understands me. It doesn’t matter, when I assume someone understands what I am saying, a miscommunication occurs. I then begin to feel like I am taken for granted or worse yet the other person feel the same.
Assumptions can eat away at a relationship faster than termites eating the rafters of a house. If termites are given enough time they can destroy a house causing nearly unrepairable damage. The same holds true when you allow assumptions to enter and stay in a relationship. The faster you can recognize them and remove them the better communicator you will be and your relationships will prosper.
Until Next Time…