Are You Like Most People?

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Many a person has “Played It Safe” and lived a life of regrets.

DON’T BE ONE OF THEM!!!

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Perry

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Here Is The Secret

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If you couldn’t tell, YES the lady on my left, (your right), is my wife of just over 40 years. As you can see we are both smiling, and I really do love being with her as much as I can.  In fact we drove tractor and trailer over the road for 7 years where we were together 24/7.

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What’s Your Destiny

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How High Can You Fly?

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Attitude is everything. With a proper attitude you can achieve greater things then you thought were possible. It is not a matter of “I think I can”, but of “What ever the outcome I will continue to press forward”.

I have found it much easier to maintain a great attitude when I surround myself with like minded people.

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Perry

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Are You A Carrier?

There are many diseases that have plagued mankind in the past. Sometimes people are immune to the disease and become a carrier that can infect others.

There is one thing that a person can be a carrier of and can infect others, and in doing so makes the world a better place. That one thing is a Healthy Attitude. There are times to maintain a healthy attitude can be difficult.  That’s when you need to get around someone you have infected to get re-infected. Always, always, always try to be a carrier.

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Perry

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How Do You Play?

plato166176You can tell a lot about someone over time. How they react under pressure, what things they like to do and even what kind of movies they like to watch. It can tell you what kind of character they have, their integrity. But there is a faster way.

I have discovered I can find out the type of integrity a person has in one hour of playing a game. Will the person bend the rules to meet their needed outcome of dominance through winning?  Will they get frustrated when the game doesn’t go their way?  A lot can be discovered by playing a game.

rush hourBut, here is the most interesting thing I have learned.  If you want to find out about a person faster, ride with them in rush hour traffic.

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Perry

 

 

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Character Is Key

 

couple-falling-apartI was speaking with a friend the other day about a relationship he had that had totally fallen apart. When I inquired as to what happened all he said was that something just didn’t seem right. I asked him how long they had been together. The answer was less then a year.

Make A ListI asked my friend to make a list of the top 5 things the ideal woman would have. Then number them from 1 to 5 in the most important to the least important. As he was doing that I wrote the following words on a paper, “Character Is More Important Than Physical Beauty”. I wrote these words based upon knowing my friend.

Once he completed his list, I had him read the list out loud. Each item on the list was about character not physical beauty. After he read the list, my friend paused. That’s when he realized not only were these the things he was looking for in a woman, but these were the items he had within himself.

relationshipsAt this point my friend realized he had been looking for a long lasting relationship in the wrong places, clubs and bars. The other relationships he had also came from those locations and while they were fun for a time each had fallen apart within just a few months. He asked me, “If I don’t go to clubs to find that one person, where do I look?” I told him, “That’s going to be different for each person, but trust yourself, you will begin to look in the right places soon. That one person is your quest and you have made it a goal to find them”.

Today my friend is looking for a long lasting relationship in other locations and I know he will find it in due time.

Take the time to write down the top 5 things of anything you are seeking, think about them and read them out loud each day. In doing so you set these as priorities for your life and will find a way to make them a reality.

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Perry

 

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What is your Attitude?

adventure-awaits-adventure-quotesI think Bob has the right idea. Your attitude will dictate the outcome. Adventure or Ordeal. The choice is yours.

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Perry

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What’s Eating Your Relationships?

ThreatWhat do you think is one of the biggest threats to your relationships?

Hot and ColdI would say the one thing that has gotten me in more hot water in my relationships is when I assume someone understands me. It doesn’t matter, when I assume someone understands what I am saying, a miscommunication occurs. I then begin to feel like I am taken for granted or worse yet the other person feel the same.

termitesAssumptions can eat away at a relationship faster than termites eating the rafters of a house. If termites are given enough time they can destroy a house causing nearly unrepairable damage. The same holds true when you allow assumptions to enter and stay in a relationship. The faster you can recognize them and remove them the better communicator you will be and your relationships will prosper.

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Perry

 

 

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Are You Living In This Nation?

What IfI had a conversation with an entrepreneur friend of mine the other day. He was contemplating bring a new product into his line. He seemed to be excited about the product and ready to go. The product would help people with a certain problem and for a very reasonable price.

All of a sudden the conversation changed which confused me. “I just don’t know. What if it’s not right”, said my friend.

“What are you talking about, you just got finished telling me how good it is”.

My friend responded with, “I don’t know, what if the packaging is just not right, or what if we forget to” blah, blah, blah.

I could see my friend was in the country of procrastiNation, there was nothing wrong with the product.

procrastinationWhen you want to kill any opportunity, use procrastination as your assassin. I can tell you from experience, it works every time.

I have used the word “IF” to keep me from moving forward. I have learned the word “IF” is one of the biggest two letter word in the English language. But, there is another two letter word that can counter act procrastination. In fact, the use of this word will shatter procrastiNation every time.

The word is “DO”.

When you take action, procrastiNation can not remain. Because you are moving, taking action, DOING something.

“IF” is the biggest procrastinator.

“Do” is the biggest accelerator.

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Perry

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